Aug 26 2008
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Age difference
Bambi
In answer to your question, we're keeping it casual because that's all either of us want at the moment. I'm not interested in being tied down by anyone - I want to be able to live my own life and do what I want while I still have the opportunity to. As far as I'm concerned, what's wrong with having some fun?
I realise that I'll be judged for my actions in the same way as anyone else, but I have confidence that my freinds and family will be understanding. Besides, you only get one shot at life!
16.11.08 5.37p.m.
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Anonymous
If your happy then good but if your so happy then why keep things casual. Keeping it casual sounds like its only sex and when you say your not planning a future together dosn't sound the best either. Good luck and remember its your life and no matter what you do you will be judged just like everyone alse.
13.11.08 10.41a.m.
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Bambi
Well, I have to say that I ignored your advice and went ahead with it anyway, and I'm the happiest I've ever been. We both realise that being together will be seen as pretty full-on and strange by others, so we're still keeping things casual, and I'm certainly not at the stage where I'm planning our future together! I don't see myself as desperate - and certainly not as a gold digger - I haven't got any idea how much money he has, and quite frankly I don't think it's any of my business.
12.11.08 8.03p.m.
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Anonymous
Parents are alot different.....
They made you, would you want to date someone who is your parents age.
Least you know your dad will get along with them.
15.10.08 8.34a.m.
Anonymous
You heartless creature. Who cares about age so long as you love each other? Thats all that matters. I know many couples who are 10 or 20yrs apart who have more in common with their partners than people their own age. Its not about the money either. A relationship based on love is far more rewarding than based around money. You cant just assume they'll die and leave you alone either- put it into context. Do you ignore your parents because they're 20 or 30yrs older & they'll die & leave u alone???
14.10.08 5.20p.m.
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Anonymous
one girl said it was wrong (i agree)
one said she WAS dating an older man, why are they no longer dating...
one said she didn't no how things would be down the track.
If your desperate then go for it, if he has money then be a gold digger. Cause you sure wont spend your whole life with him, his already lived half his life. DO you want to be 40/50 and your partner dead. Then your spending the rest of your life ALONE.
20.09.08 8.21a.m.
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Bambi
Thanks for the advice, guys. I'm glad I'm not the only one out there who is faced with this situation. I'll definitely go for it now!
17.09.08 12.29p.m.
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