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Cheat-proof your relationship!

Clever tips to keep it real

Cheat-proof your relationship

Worried about infidelity? There's no need - just follow these clever little tips for your happy-ever-after ending.

Get involved
Participate in your guy's personal passions (if he invites you to) and show him what makes you tick. No real connection can exist if it's a one-way street.

Keep an open mind
Be open to new ideas in bed or to simply having more sex. That doesn't mean agreeing to anything and everything he wants. But sex represents intimacy for men, so keep in mind how much getting it on matters to him.

Talk, actually
Talk at least 10 minutes a day if you have to be apart. Sharing little day-to-day details creates the fabric of your life together. And no, text messages can't accomplish the same as hearing each other's voices.

Meet the competition
Suggest getting together with his female friend or co-worker if he seems to mention her a lot. The woman in question will be less likely to move in on your man if she knows (and likes) you.

Be there with him
Accompany him to evening activities, whether business or social, as much as possible (unless he's claiming a boys' night out). In general, when alcohol is flowing, tempting situations are more likely to crop up.

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Posted 02 Jul 2008 by Diolay
Now I'm not a great fan of the bible but even it does have some good points in there. One of them being, "to the women, render her husband his dues and to the man, render his wife her dues". This is taken from a passage that tells how to take care of your marriage. If a woman really loves her partner, she will care about him and his comfort and like wise, he will care about hers.  Report thisReport this

Posted 26 Jul 2008 by ex-model
Let him have time away from you. Living in each other's pockets is dangerous. Don't be afraid of other women who try to move in on your man. They are usually only good for one thing to them. if you see them as no threat, he'll never have the need to stray. Tested and true  Report thisReport this

Posted 15 Aug 2008 by "A guy"
All I have ever asked is for my girl to come to a free lesson to see what it is I do while there. She doesn't want to. Fine, I think, allows me to check out other girls. Doesn't mean I'm going to cheat, but doesn't mean I feel wanted by my girl neither. Would you spend an hour being interested in my hobby to keep me interested for a life time?  Report thisReport this


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