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Author, blogger, TV and radio presenter - whatever you want to call her, Samantha Brett is, above all, Australia's number one dating and relationships guru. If you have a question on men and sex for Sam, submit it below. Fun, honest, helpful answers guaranteed!

Question:

Every time I start getting close with a guy I freak out and find the smallest things I don’t like about them in order to get rid of them. How do I learn to not pick at the small things?

Answer:

It might be that you’re simply afraid of commitment. Or it might be that you just haven’t found the right guy yet! If small things are annoying you from the outset, they’re only going to get worse as the relationship progresses. So it’s important for you to find someone you think you can stick around for the long haul. On the other hand, perhaps you should learn to stop being so picky!

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