Sep 2 2008
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confused and frustrated
lee
thanks to annon and becky881. ur advice has helped. ive decided not to bother trying to make things work, im better off without him. i really thought things could work out but after he messaged me abuse ive had enough,im not going to let him ruin my life and waste my time anymore.im over it! but the hardest part is, im good friends with his brother and cousins!! that makes it a bit tough.
thanks again girls.
08.09.08 8.27p.m.
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Anonymous
If u still want to make it work you should try calling him up and telling him that you still want to be friends but if he continues to give you trouble then you'd rather just move on in your life and dont speak anymore! Your not his punching bag to let out all his crap onto so i wouldnt take it if i was you. Goodluck
06.09.08 4.44p.m.
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Becky881
i know exactly what your going through... we had been going out for 2 and a half years and we both thought it was for the best for us to be friends as we had growen apart over time. at first everything went fine then he would get all moodie and start abusing me over nothing. but there isnt much you can do about it. now when he wants to talk to me its when he feels like putting me down or arguing with me i have given up and on him ever being the same again so just move on.
04.09.08 2.40p.m.
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lee
i broke up with my boyfriend of 3 yrs 6 mths ago,&since then theres been constant trouble. the break up was mutual,we both decided on a friendship.i hadnt spoken to him in a month&he decided to message me out of the blue full of abuse&tell me that im ruining my life&he only hopes that i get everything i deserve&hopes im miserable.he also started dating someone a month after we broke up.all i want is to make things work.
has anyone been in a similar position?&if so how did u handle it? cheers
02.09.08 6.22p.m.
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