Forum: Love & Sex
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inifinity
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30-June-2009 22:28
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Hi everyone, I am having trouble with finding good conversation topics..my boyfriend talks a lot and I am generally a pretty closed person. On the phone, he does a lot of the talking and when he asks me to talk..I get put on the spot and don't know what to say. How should I respond when he says 'what do you want to talk about?' and also when he says' tell me something about yourself' i never know what to say..what should I tell him about myself?
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PatRiarchy
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01-July-2009 10:45
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U could try imagining he is ur best friend.
But I doubt that would work. Usually, when u r talking with sum1 u r interested in u want 2 contribute too. U don't coz ur not really interested in him & the only reason u want him around is to lift ur status amongst ur peers.
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Grumple
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01-July-2009 13:37
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PatRiarchy.
You crack me up. Saw your comments on the lying about age topic too. You were right, just be honest.
But in this case you're not helping this girl out!!
I am extremely communicative and am often told I am intimidating and high maintenenace mentally and intellectually. This is not however a bad thing and I'm told it is quite an attractive quality for guys who are looking for more than a 'plastic' trophy girlfriend.
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