Cosmo Q&A

He's my friend - I want the benefits!

Author, blogger, TV and radio presenter - whatever you want to call her, Samantha Brett is, above all, Australia's number one dating and relationships guru. If you have a question on men and sex for Sam, submit it below. Fun, honest, helpful answers guaranteed!

Question:

I think I’m in love with my best friend who is a guy. But at the moment i get very jealous when he talks to other girls or texts them. We’re fighting so much it doesn’t look like were going to be friends for much longer. How can I stop from losing him ?

Answer:

At this point, the only thing really to do is to explain to him how you feel. Gently tell him that you think you might like him more than a friend and then gauge his reaction. You don’t want to lose him as a friend, but at the same time things can’t keep going the way they are. Maybe he feels the same about you too!

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