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Question:

I live with my ex. His new girlfriend is 18, four years younger than us. They broke up, and in that time we slept together. They got back together and we've hooked up four more times since then. I don't feel guilty because I know they won't last. Is this bad? from Maree

Answer:

This is shocking, Maree! Think about how the poor girl feels! Walk away - now, as fast as you can, because if he can do this to her, it means he could do it to you. If he loves you, why is he with her? And if he really likes her, why is he with you? This can never end well so it's best for you to walk away now and find someone that will treat you as their priority.

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Comments (11)

  • i know how you feel..... ive been sleepin with my ex boyfriend for months now....we tried to make it work but this 4 years on and off has been hurtin me....he will eventually realize that he is missing out and will come running back but i got out while i could!!!!!
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  • Put yourself in her shoes.....how would you feel??? get it through your stupid little head..he doesn't love you otherwise he would be with you. your just a bit of fun on the side and your going to ruin some girls life over scum like him!! grow up
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  • I agree with Nonni, seriously how would you feel if it was the other way around? If he wanted to be with you he wouldn't be with her. He's got his cake & he's eating it too. Find someone who will give you 100% of themselves not someone you have to share behind's someone's back. Even if you THINK it won't last he's with her for a reason & she is a person with feelings too.
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  • Nupp thats horrible! Just get away! I know what that girl feels like! It's happening to me right now! You have had your chance you f.ed it up! Get over it move on! You have no idea how it feels to have that happen to you! Reading that, knowing how that girl feels. It just makes me want to cry. Have some heart. Having that happen to you is like having your heart ripped out and having it stabbed again and again. And she probley has always hated you so it makes it worse!
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  • Think why are you doing this? Do you still love him? Do you just want to ruin anything thats good in his life just cause he broke up with you? WHAT!? What ever the reason it's no right! Don't do that to this girl she has feelings to. Don't be a selfish dog! I hate girls like you!
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