Forum: Love & Sex
is he just scared of committment?
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ashleychontelle
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06-March-2010 00:29
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Ive started seeing this guy and at first he was prepared to let us grow into a relationship but has now been "straight up" with me and told me he's not ready for that right now.
He still continues tells me things like how he doesn't want to give up his freedom but then acts like my boyfriend and makes me feel like the only girl on earth.
How do i know if he's just scared to committ? And will this go away with time?
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PatRiarchy
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07-March-2010 06:49
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It seems wot u r saying is that he should not treat u as the only girl in the world unless he wants 2 marry u.
Why would u want him 2 "commit? and wot does that mean 2 u.
Sounds like ur so far up in the air he is coping with u quite well. He is not stupid unlike u & he has recognised already that ur a wacko as is proven by the above
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JoanneNewey
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07-March-2010 23:26
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Obviously I don't know anything about this particular guy but I can speak from my own experience. My current boyfriend of one year acted the same way for a long time before we became a couple and now we are both very happy together. It could be because he's afraid to make a change in his life but over time he might see that it's worth risking. My advice is that if you think he's worth it, stick it out and see what happens, it sounds like he cares about you to me, he's just scared.
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