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Forum: Love & Sex
 Letting her know its not just about sex?
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Impulse
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10-February-2010 09:31
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I've been seeing this girl for a little while and at nights when we stay together things can escalate pretty quickly and granted being male become easily aroused, however i have concerns that she might be seeing that the relationship is heading toward the physical, i try to tell her all her amazing qualities to reassure her that its not but feel i might be pushing her away with how i say i feel and how we / I interact in the bedroom. How do i let her know whats real???
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gemmalee
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10-February-2010 14:46
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Organise a romantic lunch time picnic or something out in public. By taking her out during the day you are saying you want to be seen in public with her and you want to spend time with her, not just in the bedroom at night (or anytime), but all the time. Also talk to her about things that are important to you both. Talking and sharing your thoughts and feelings is a big move. My partner is absolutely wonderful, but even he is still learning to open up more and more with me. Good Luck!
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ellagrace
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23-February-2010 17:25
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id go with gemmalee's advice, its what the girl sounds like she needs. Take her out for icecream, do something fun where there are lots of people so she really does feel like your showing her off and saying you want to be with her. Talking about how she makes you feel and not just how amazing she is to you would also be good. As for PatRiarchy's advice, girls do not just think things for no reason, he sounds like he's not had a very good run with the ladies, i wouldnt take him seriously.
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