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Forum: Love & Sex
 my boyfriend wont have sex with me
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turquoisemosaic
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04-November-2009 16:18
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I had the same thing with an ex. It bothered me a lot at the time too, but looking back through the eyes of experience, I now see it was probably a combination of two things. Firstly, my ex exercised ALL the time. He was very competitive, and I think now that because he was using so much testosterone and energy, he didn't feel very horny at the end of the day. Secondly, I think that we were growing apart .and he didn't feel close to me anymore. There might be something else going on though.
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turquoisemosaic
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04-November-2009 16:27
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Maybe he has some self-esteem issues, or is stressed about something, or is unwell. If he's lost his libido, he's probably embarassed and is scared of failing when it comes to having sex. Boys can be very sensitive sometimes about these kind of things. Maybe try to talk to him about what's going on in his life (and if there is nothing, that also might be the problem), and see what he needs. He might just need some space, or some loving, or someone to tell him how great he is.
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turquoisemosaic
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04-November-2009 16:30
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Suss it out, and see if you can treat the cause instead of just the symptom. Try not to nag him too much about sex, because if he is insecure about himself in that way, bringing it up again and again might make it worse. Also, if he's saying he's stressed, that might be just it. Maybe you could help him with chores and things to alleviate his stress. Be creative, and good luck!
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