Print Send to friend Archive Comment

One night in paradise?

Research shows women 'regret' one-night stands

54% of women regret one night stands

Sex and the City might have glamorised sexual freedom and our right to shag anyone, anywhere, anytime, but new British research shows that women don't actually want one-night stands.

Professor Anne Campbell at the University of Durham, where the research was conducted, claimed that almost half of the women interviewed for the study said they felt 'regret' after a one-night stand.

Almost 1800 men and women were interviewed for the study, and were asked to rate it as a positive or negative experience.

While 80 per cent of men felt happy about their bumps in the night, only 54 per cent of women agreed.

The researchers concluded that generally, women are not well-adapted to casual relationships.

Says Professor Campbell, "What the women seemed to object to was not the briefness of the encounter but the fact that the man did not seem to appreciate her. The woman thought this lack of gratitude implied that she did this with anybody."

PLUS: To read what Cosmo's sex and dating expert, Samantha Brett, has to say about one-night stands, click here!

More article
Number of Comments(63) Add Comment
Posted 02 Jul 2008 by Paul
'lack of gratitude'... this implies that it is only men that get something out of sex. Shouldnt both parties show gratitude to each other? To those that may comment that maybe she didnt get anything out of it, follow the mantra... 'Dont be afraid to lead, or be led in bed'.  Report thisReport this

Posted 02 Jul 2008 by Sally
Lauren - it's extremely hard to commit someone for a rape they didn't commit. do you really think a girl would go through the whole demeaning, instrusive, soul-baring follow up of reporting a rape if it didn't take place?! No still means no  Report thisReport this

Posted 02 Jul 2008 by Nichka
I think one night stands are really overrated. I still beleive that even if you are prepared to go down that path than you might as well have a sex change. Sure go, think and do it, being libarating and all but deep down it trully dosent satisfy.....and you REALLY NEED to ASK YOURSELF, (not just the obvious answer)......WHY??????  Report thisReport this

Posted 02 Jul 2008 by kaidan
i think one night stands are a good way of release with no strings attached, so i do not under stand reactions of some woman. The man didn't seem to appreciate her? Duh. They've only just met. What's this commitment issue? god women are idiots, and i say that as one myself.  Report thisReport this

Posted 02 Jul 2008 by just me
o who cares if you have one night stands. im a female thats had a few . and yeah the next day im like what the . haha. but hey i knew what i was doin . drunk or not drunk you still in control. forget about it and get on with it  Report thisReport this

PREVIOUS PAGE1234567 NEXT

Poll

Would you watch porn if it was more female-friendly?


Competitions

Cosmo CompetitionsEnter now for your opportunity to WIN one of Cosmopolitan's competitions! more »

Most popular

The world's richest tweens more »
Two of a kind more »
Men and Sex more »
The diva wears Prada more »