Sex

12 people reveal the first time they tried something they never thought they would during sex

No. 3 is hot AF.

By: Hannah Smothers

What happens when you try something completely new in bed? Realising you have a certain kink or fetish isn't just as simple as slapping on a pair of handcuffs and seeing whether or not you like it — especially if that kink is something that you normally wouldn't consider doing during sex (like no. 12, for example). A recent viral Ask Reddit thread got people to reveal the moment they realised they had a very specific sexual fantasy or preference, and things got very steamy.

1. "My SO at the time got fluffy handcuffs as a joke for her birthday and I just decided to use them on her and it kinda escalated from there." —tehbeh

2. "When my GF agreed to get naked at the skate park, I knew I would love exhibitionist GFs forever." —CaptainObviousSpeaks

3. "When I was in college my girlfriend at the time was a burlesque dancer for Halloween with a few of her roommates. One of her other roommates was a cop. Said roommate left her handcuffs in the hallway. I asked my girl to wear the corset from her costume before Halloween; she had huge boobs, seemed like a no brainer. She jokingly left her room to change so I 'would be surprised.' She came back in with her breasts completely pushed together and up from the corset with the cuffs in hand. Then she handcuffed my hands behind my head to the bedframe and blew me. I'm now completely into having my hands restrained during oral and corsets are my vice." —cypress

4. "I was taking a shower with my then-girlfriend after some delightfully messy sex. She had to pee and I said to just do it in the shower. She proceeded to aim her pee on my leg because she thought it was funny. I however found it oddly arousing and later had a brief discussion about it ... long story short turns out we both had pee fetishes ... who knew!" —reddipeg

5. "I was with this girl for a long time who loved 'porno'-style sex. She liked being on camera, she liked the overdone dirty talk and moaning, and she would only ever do the few classic porno positions. We would try to mimic scenes. She especially had a strong attraction to group scenes, so we eventually brought additional people into the fold." —Dehymenator

6. "I joked about tying my SO's hands together if she didn't stop trying to tickle me. It led to some of the hottest sex of our relationship." —Slaughterhouse451

7. "I just smelt her breath while banging it out and got harder than ever. It's a weird kink but it's mine. I realised smelling her mid-sex breath was just intoxicating. Now I pretty much just shove my nose in her mouth when I want to come." —Splitsplitter

8. "I was at my girlfriend's friend house. She took off her shoes revealing some long stockings. We were watching a movie then she placed her foot on my crotch and started stroking me. Still not sure if it's stockings, feet, or legs." —Cock-a-la-mond

9. "I had always been curious about some of the stranger sides of bondage but never felt comfortable enough with anyone to ask if they'd try it. Met this dude, we started going on dates. Went out of town with him, first time we were going to have sex. He asks me what my kinks were, as a mutual friend of ours did not tell him. I told him I wanted to try pet play. He had recently gotten his dog a new collar, and it didn't fit her. It fits me perfectly, would you look at that! Now we're engaged and get to try out all sorts of freaky stuff whenever we want to." —Kahluka

10. "When I was swimming with my boyfriend in my apartment's pool. I took my bikini off and fucked him underwater. No one was around but it was the thrill of being caught that made me go, 'Yep, this is it. I'll fuck in public from now on.'" —mqnrcxnypvzw868994

11. "I made a stupid joke about my girlfriend's best friend, and she slapped me incredibly hard. I have never been so turned on in my life." —realcanadianbaconeh

12. "Well, I just found out my new kink is reading about other's kinks on Reddit." —BoyzRBacK

Source: Cosmo US

  • Author: Hannah Smothers