Sex

Kinky quickies

A recent study found that couples who engage in a little kink are happier in their relationships. No “red room”? Try these!

Couple in a bedroom

Wear your kink on your sleeve

If it’s going to be quick and dirty, be creative with belts, scarves, and tights (just know your tights won’t make it back to you in one piece). Use your scarf to bind his wrists and get his belt to thwack his butt when he’s being bad. Or let him rip off your tights the second you come home from work, then do it right there against the door, with your skirt hiked up around your waist.

Or, try some invisible bondage

You don’t need tools to bind each other. Have him command you to hold a position (“put your arms above your head and don’t dare move them”). Or push his arms behind his back and tell him to keep ’em there – or else. Use your dirty imagination to decide what the consequences will be for any disobedience.

Take it outside

Doing the deed in a semi-public place is a huge risk… thereby doubling the wattage of your rendezvous. There could be negative consequences (like being arrested), so your best bet to pulling it off is to keep your clothes on (wear a skirt but no undies), and do it in a place you’ll hear someone coming. A stairwell is perfect – the footsteps on the stairs will tip you off.

Get freaky and festive

Summer party season is upon us and kink – along with love, supercharged sex drives and loose morals – is in the air. Use the excuse of a dress-up party (oh, the masks! The mystery!) to experiment and indulge in a bit of role-playing fun. Whether you’re going as a sassy cop or a vampy vampire, spend a few breathless minutes with your crim, prey, victim – whatever you want to call him; even if it means you arrive orgasmically – we mean fashionably – late.

Keep oh- so quiet

Not being “allowed” to make any noise can be a huge turn-on. Stuff his tie into his mouth, then do dirty, dirty things to him until he’s digging his nails into his palms to keep from ripping that gag out.

Set a record

We aren’t all orgasm sprinters. For you long-distancers out there, a vibrator is a quickie clutch – and some are so small that they’ll actually fit in your cute, going-out one. (We like the Kandi Kisses “lipstick” vibrator, $89.) Challenge your guy to get you off in record time, and make a deal that if he comes before you do, he’s your sex slave for a week.

Be dirty while getting clean

Enjoying a shower together? Bend over, aiming the showerhead at your hotspot while he does his thing from behind. Or slick his fingers with shower gel and have him give you a good clean…

Rev your engine

When he takes you out for a fancy occasion, park the car at the most underground point in the garage. Then straddle him while he’s buckled up (and still at your mercy), and show him just how much you appreciate his gesture.