Reddit shared how to tell if the man you're with is experienced in the ~sexual arts~, and it all checks out. Here's how to tell if the dude you're boning (or about to bone down with) knows how to please a lady. (Lady = you. Duh.)
- He's stocked for lady company**. He keeps pads/tampons at his place, hair ties, and extra tooth brushes and razors.
- **He has a trash can with a liner in their bathroom.** If a man has a nice bathroom, you know this cat gets around. And by gets around, I mean has sex with ladies. Probably a lot.
- **He doesn't need to brag about or talk up his sexual prowess. He doesn't need to tell you because he can just show you. Meow!
- Women brag about him.** When your product is top notch, word of mouth will get you by. Or, as one Reddit user put it, "I once had a fuckbuddy that I told I would be willing to write letters of sexual reference for."
- **He's creative in bed (but he's also not always fucking you like a porn star).** He knows variety is the spice of life in between the sheets but he's also not going to make ever sex session a marathon bone-fest that involves a trapeze and nipple clamps.
6. He doesn't rush. He's no wham-bam, thank you, ma'am. He takes his time to show you how much he cares about you. (You = your orgasm.)
- He's vocally expressive.** The art of creative dirty talk is not lost on the experienced gentlemen. He knows he has to do better than some caveman grunts to get you off.
- He has good control over his body.** Basically, he knows what he has and he knows how to use it. Rowr!
- He pays attention to your clitoris.** As one Reddit user puts it, "he's into finding ways to rub my clit no matter what else was going on."
- He's not ashamed or embarrassed about the size of his penis.** He knows that penis size isn't related to sexual pleasure, and isn't all weird about it, whether it's the size of pencil or a breadbox — but this especially goes for guys who think they're too small. One Reddit user gets it right: "Best sex ever was with a guy half as big as the worst."
- He makes sure you finish first.* This is the ultimate sign that you're with a verifiable beast in the bedroom.
Source: Cosmo US