Sex

Will you give in to the porn ultimatum?

Tiffany tackles the ever-growing porn problem...

Today I received an email from the Man Of The Moment. In it he bantered about our date this evening and then supplied some links, to what I presumed, were going to be restaurant venues.
Not thinking anything of it, I clicked on to them… and was immediately faced with a video of two porn stars having sex. Looking around frantically – could the cat tell I was looking at porn? – I desperately tried to close the site down; embarrassed by all the grunting and groaning that was happening on my screen. Five minutes later, there was a knock on my door. Flustered, I went to answer it, to find the MOTM on the doorstep. He had a cheeky smile on his face and was holding a bottle of champagne. “Shall we?” he asked, walking into the flat. So, it seems my man is not intimidated by porn. In fact, he admits that porn is definitely a weekly occurrence in most men’s lives… and he was adamant women should test it out too. “Seriously, it will either turn you on or make you laugh!” he insisted. So, what is your stance on the porn ultimatum? Do you think us women should embrace the online phenomenon? Are we missing out by playing the prude?
I’ve heard women say that porn intimidates them. “How are we supposed to live up to the things that porn stars do in the bedroom?” asked one of my friends. Another one, looking despairingly down at her A-cup chest, bemoaned: “Porn stars boobs are often quadruple the size of mine!” But then I got thinking. Is porn one of those ‘don’t go there subjects’ that women just refuse to talk about to each other? Have you ever sat in a bar with a friend and recommended a good porn website? (Don’t laugh – I have numerous male friends who suggest sites to each other.) Is it time for us to switch on that laptop, think of our fantasy and try and find it on screen? The MOTM certainly thinks so. In fact, I’ve just received another email from him. This one is entitled “Tonight?” I haven’t yet had the guts to click on the link. But maybe I will later...