Cosmo Q&A

Mattress Mayhem

Author, blogger, TV and radio presenter - whatever you want to call her, Samantha Brett is, above all, Australia's number one dating and relationships guru. If you have a question on men and sex for Sam, submit it below. Fun, honest, helpful answers guaranteed!

Question:

My boyfriend is quite unimaginative in bed while, in the past, I've had more adventurous sex. I don't want to freak him out or make him feel inadequate, but is there some way I can get him to inject a bit more excitement into sex - and maybe even make it seem like it was his idea! Jade, via email

Answer:

It's fun to explore different things in the bedroom, but your man might feel nervous when suggesting anything too forward, especially at the beginning of the relationship. Make him feel extremely comfortable with you. Maybe you could watch a porn film together and comment on certain positions, or even grab him a copy of the Kama Sutra for his birthday with a cute card saying, "Maybe this will come in handy!" For more from Samantha, head to www.samanthabrett.com.au.

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