Originally Posted by: AudreyH

I'm 16, started seeing this guy but i'm not sure where it's heading. I would like to start having sex but the thing is, i'm really self conscious of my body, and i'm nervous that anything I do will be wrong. Even with stuff like oral i'm really nervous, ive had a guy go down on me once but it wasn't good at all...is there something wrong with me?..i'm always to nervous to go with the flow,i overthink things. plus how do i let go and stop feeling self conscious, and just go with it and have fun??

i know it sounds cliche,
but if your not sure dont even bother going there. wait for someone who you actually want to lose it to because they are special. you need to be at peace with your own body image and love yourself before you can let someone else love it. nothing is worse than awkward sex. if he is the right guy than it will find some sort of eway of working out.
if you do decide he is worth it than go for it. be safe and let him know if your not ok with going any further

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