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binkan
Date Joined: 19.01.2012

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Stand beside him??

Tqo weeks ago I started dating this guy. He is 9 years older then me but thats not an issue with us. He recently admitted to me that he still has some feelings for his ex. I really like this guy and I want to help him resolve his feelings for her. They have been broken up for over 5 years.

I have said to him that I want to stay with him but at times I am unsure as I have had my heart broken too many times to committ to this relationship 100%.

What should I do?

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Posted 26 feb 2012 by missbeebee | Report this comment

I understand why you want to do it, i think were all guilty of doing things similar to you. But in the end this is not a movie, theirs no music, no man running towards you. This is your life and you need to put yourself first. And if he likes you he will find you and tell you his over her. No one wants to be number 2.
Posted 25 jan 2012 by Disco93 | Report this comment

Girl your too nice!! I have to agree with these other comments. Its not your responsibility to help him resolve these feelings after 5 whole years, considering you've been dating for only 2 weeks. You doesnt deserve to have your heart broken again if things dont work out for you. Good luck!
Posted 23 jan 2012 by mgreen | Report this comment

Its not your job to help him resolve his feelings for his ex. Thats his job. He shouldnt be with anyone else if he is still trying to resolve past feelings. Things will get messy and complicated if they arent already. Sorry but you dont want to be constantly thinking and worrying about something like this, it will drive you mad.
Posted 22 jan 2012 by monroe | Report this comment

Hi binkan First of all two weeks is not a long time at all and he is already telling you he is not over is ex. Not good! But like I said two weeks is not a long time so things can change. Maybe once you get to know eachother you'll realize you don't even like him that much. But don't go into this thinking you're going to be the one to change his mind about his ex. Not saying that you can't but I've been there before and after 5 years if he's not over her he might have some issues that you don't want to have to deal with. See how things go but keep your options opened. Hope everything works out for you.