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Date Joined: 04.01.2012
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    Jes_Star
    22.01.2012

what has happened to respecting a girl?

 

hi, this has bugged me only just recently-because it happened on friday night. (i'm not naming this blokes actual name, just know that Ted* is made up) Now, this is how the story goes....i went out on friday night to a local bar with a friend from highschool. she left around 11:30. my night continued at this same bar because i knew a couple of the bartenders. it was 2am on saturday morning, when everyone was leaving to head to another local pub. i had started up a conversation with a bloke called Ted*, he was lovely, sweet, nice and stayed with me even when the night was drawing to a close, well for me anyway. i told him that i had no idea how to get home even though i lived 5mins away. so, i decided i would walk and he offered to walk with me, which was really sweet =) just makes you wanna go ''nawww, that's adorable''. so, we arrived at my house and chatted for a 10=15mins, then i said i should let him go and i should go to bed. ok, i offered my bedfloor for him to sleep on (so, stupid when i think of it now) eventually boy moves in, girl moves closer, let the makeout begin! now that was for 5mins. since then i've been constantly smiling because it made me happy. tonight i spoke to a friend that works with Ted* as a bartender, and he told me that he heard what had happened.now, what i want to know is, what did he actually say or brag to his mates about our rendezvous? I feel as though there's little respct for a girl when she's had a fantastic night like this......like what if she actually wants to see him again but without the ''she's easy'' tag against her name?

 

 
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  • MandyCandy

    who really cares what people think, only you and him know just what happened, now if he wants to brag and carry on to his mates /work associates and lie well hes not worth talking too, now that is of course if he did lie cos your friend who works with him could be making up story's.

  • monroe

    Hi Jes_Star Yes I do agree if women act a certain away they are automatically judged. But don't think so deep into this situation because if he's into you he will want to get to know you and not judge based on one night. If you didn't do anything like you said then no you aren't easy. Try not to care what he say's to everyone because it's his word against yours. You are what you allow others to think of you so don't assume he has labled you yet. If he does go around spreading rumours than he's clearly immature and someone you don't want to take seriously anyways. Be yourself and have fun!!! All the best!!

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