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Pixie30
Date Joined: 13.01.2012

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Worth Fighting For?

I have been in a relationship for the past year. When I met my bf he told me that hee met a girl when he was travelling overseas and had a crush on her but knew they could never be together. He told me they were no longer in contact. She continually calls him up to 8 times a day and tells him that she loves him and wants to be with him. He says they are just friends and always promises that he is not in contact. She recently came out here and he lied and hide from me that he met up with her behind my back and is still in contact with her. She is coming out her again in a couple of months and I don't know if he will ever be able to be honest and cut off from her ... ?

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Posted 23 may 2012 by Pixie30 | Report this comment

Thanks for all your comments. They have been really helpful ... He says that he is no longer in contact and cut off but he cant control if she still contacts him but if I bring it up again, it's over between us ...
Posted 23 may 2012 by Pixie30 | Report this comment

Thanks for all your comments. They have been really helping. He has said to me that's it's gone and a none issue now and that he is no longer in contact with her and that if I bring it up again ... it's over ...
Posted 03 may 2012 by kaitlynhaha | Report this comment

He's totally playing with your heart. If he really cared about you he wouldn't let her call her that much or even at all! If he had to lie to you he's obviously got something to hide. He shouldnt even be friends with someone that always says she love's him, how would he feel? this is just so wrong. leave him. you deserve so much better. (:
Posted 16 apr 2012 by becsim08 | Report this comment

He clearly doesn't want to give her up. He is obviously into her and the fact that he tried to hide his contact with her indicates guilt. End it before he physically cheats on you. He is clearly already emotionally cheating on you. So sorry.
Posted 01 apr 2012 by Kate_89 | Report this comment

I went through pretty much the exact same thing. We argued about it so many times, he kept trying to say I was overreacting, it's nothing, bla bla bla, even went to relationship counselling for a few months, not long later, found yet another email exchange from the day before talking about the dirty pictures she had of him. We broke up that day. He was never going to change. I don't regret that decision and neither should you if it comes to that. You don't need people manipulating you to feel like you should put up with something you're not happy with and is clearly wrong. xo
Posted 28 mar 2012 by x0mango0x | Report this comment

He has lied to you in the past and present and most likely going to lie to you in the future. Honestly i think he is holding you back from great things in life like happiness and even your future soul mate. If i were you i would let him know how much he has shown you no respect in general as a person and that you now longer wish to be with a liar.
Posted 15 mar 2012 by TEEMMZ | Report this comment

If he has made you question your trust and love for him then i think its time to let go sorry. Easier said then done yes, but in then end with a major chance of the outcome being bad you can save yourself a lot of hurt and heartache. Not to forget time in your life.
Posted 28 feb 2012 by sweetie-san | Report this comment

yeah..dump him ! there are other fishes in the sea !