I've been with my boyfriend for 15 months. We haven't had sex yet, and I've never had sex before. How do I know when I'm ready and what should I do when I am? from Wendy
Wendy, 15 months is a long time and I'm impressed that your boyfriend hasn't put the pressure on you. He's a keeper! Obviously that indicates he really likes you and isn't just using you to get into the sack. The best thing to do is to broach the subject with him. Discuss your trepidations and fears and by getting it out in the open, you'll feel more comfortable and in tune with when it should happen. If you aren't ready, remember there is no rush! Some wait till they're married to do the hanky-panky so it's not abnormal to not rush into things.