Cosmo Q&A

We're sleeping together...but not sleeping together...

Author, blogger, TV and radio presenter - whatever you want to call her, Samantha Brett is, above all, Australia's number one dating and relationships guru. If you have a question on men and sex for Sam, submit it below. Fun, honest, helpful answers guaranteed!

Question:

I am 20 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. We have slept in the same bed numerous times but we haven’t had sex. Is it me, is he just not attracted to me?

Answer:

He might be waiting for you to say something and doesn’t feel like he is pressuring you. This is a good situation to be in! There’s nothing worse than being pressure by a guy to do it when you’re not ready so the fact that he wants to wait means that he genuinely cares about you. Broaching the topic with him and indicating that you might be ready is a good way to break the ice, and to let him know that you might be ready to take the next step!

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