Cosmo Q&A

Why did he change his mind?

Author, blogger, TV and radio presenter - whatever you want to call her, Samantha Brett is, above all, Australia's number one dating and relationships guru. If you have a question on men and sex for Sam, submit it below. Fun, honest, helpful answers guaranteed!

Question:

I've been dating this guy for a few months, but last week he told me that he just wants to be friends. I asked him if he just wasn't attracted to me and he ignored me. Why a sudden change of thoughts?

Answer:

Men can do strange things and we just have to rise above it and realise it's not us, but probably their own issues. Hold your head up high, don't crawl back or be desperate to get into his life and try your best to move on. Get out there with your girlfriends, have fun and meet other people. He'll probably come running back anyway but hopefully by then you'll have found someone else that actually appreciates being with you!

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