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Willing to settle

Author, blogger, TV and radio presenter - whatever you want to call her, Samantha Brett is, above all, Australia's number one dating and relationships guru. If you have a question on men and sex for Sam, submit it below. Fun, honest, helpful answers guaranteed!
Question:
How can I hold onto a guy who doesn't want a relationship? I am willing to settle for being friends-with-benefits, but how do I tell him?
Answer:
If a guy doesn't want a relationship there is nothing you can do or say that is going to change his mind – unfortunately! You need to simply STEP AWAY, pull back and see if he misses you enough to want to ask you out properly – not just as a 4am booty call.
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