Are you in a successful relationship?

Human behavioural expert Dr John Demartini gives us the key signs of a successful relationship and answers our question- how important is sex?

Consider Dr Demartini as the ever rational girlfriend who's your first stop for when you need relationship advice . Only that rational girlfriend is one of the world's leading authorities on human behaviour and personal development, and is the bestselling author of 40 books in 28 languages. We asked him for key points to some of the niggling relationship questions we've been itching to have answered.

What are some of the signs you're in a successful relationship?

There are many but the top ones are:

What are some of the biggest causes of relationship conflict?

Things to keep in mind:

What are your tips for a successful relationship?

How you been surprised by anything during your relationship research?

Yes- some of the things are:

How important is sex in a relationship?

In most relationships adequate sex is just as important as adequate money. It can be expressed in many ways - cuddling, holding hands, kissing, petting, intercourse, massage, dancing, conversations, creativity. The very nature of the complementary opposite sexes draws people together for the purpose of an inner sexual alchemy. Loving sexual intimacy and bonding with its neurochemistry allows the two partners to feel connected and envision longer futures together.

Can everyone be sexually magnetic?

Absolutely! Since sexuality is in the eye, ear and hand of the beholder many traits can be a sexual turn on - Sexy looks, Sex walks, Sex voices, Sexy manners or movements, Intelligence, Wit, Humour, Wealth, Achievements, Social power, Daringness…

By identifying and listing the many sexually magnetic traits that you presently have you help others recognize and be drawn to the same. When you value your sexual magnetism so do others.

By caring enough to determine what is most important to your mate and helping them fulfil it you add to your sexual magnetism.

Dr Demartini's Heart of Love offers step by step instructions on how to unlock your relationship potential. For more information head here.