Sex

How a vagina in a can will boost your sex drive

A little word of advice for all the blokes out there.

By Katie Stow

It’s time to get frank, blokes: Do you orgasm more quickly than you’d like to? Are your swimmers shooting out well before you want them to? And is it causing you (or your partner) anxiety and/or frustration because it’s what neither of you want in the bedroom but it just keeps happening?
FEAR NOT! There’s a rather unorthodox solution for you out there. And it involves a vagina in a can — or as they’re more commonly known: A Fleshlight.

Just like you beef up your bod in the gym, you can improve your physical penis health through, essentially, training your dick — and a Fleshlight can be your sexual equivalent of the squat rack.

But before we dive into that, let’s clear some things up.

What is a Fleshlight?

Fleshlights are as close as you'll get to a real vagina from a male masturbator toy. Inside the solid casing is a soft, pliable, real-feel skin sleeve that has been specially designed to replicate the feel of a woman's vagina, so you get a genuine sensation of penetrative sex when you put your erection inside.

How do you use a Fleshlight?

To use a Fleshlight, you put some water-based lubricant on your penis plus the orifice entry of the Fleshlight, and you also lube up the internal sleeve.

Then you insert your erect penis, hold the solid casing and thrust away as you would during normal penetrative sex.

Can you cum inside a Fleshlight?

You can ejaculate safely inside the Fleshlight sleeve as it’s fully washable afterwards. You just remove the sleeve, wash it with water (avoiding soap or chemical-filled cleaners) and allow it to dry before putting it back in the casing. You can buy a renewer powder to keep the real feel material in tip-top condition.

What Fleshlight is best for boosting your sex drive?

While there are loads of different Fleshlight sleeves to choose from for everyday pleasure wanks, there’s a specific one designed especially for orgasm delay training, called the Stamina Training Unit (STU), which you buy here for $99.95.

It’s designed to most closely replicate the true sensation of intercourse with its optimum internal 13mm canal diameter and its realistic texture.

The genius of the STU is that it works both as a pleasurable masturbator AND as a tool to work on increasing your stamina and endurance. You can work on controlling your orgasm without the pressure of satisfying a woman at the same time, which is going to make things much more straightforward for you, both psychologically and physically.

How do you train your dick with a Fleshlight?

The essence of the training process is to allow you to learn to recognise when you are going to orgasm and learn how to delay the process.

As you enter the STU you’ll notice the smooth, pillow-like texture massaging your penis. The STU bumps rub you on the way in, but the ridges really grab your penis on the way out. The STU has been described as feeling like "little fingers" tickling your penis in an unbelievably intense way. Remember we told you this was the kind of training you were going to enjoy…

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As you thrust harder and get closer to the point of no return, your penis naturally expands, increasing the sensation of the texture, and magnifying intensity. Then you pass the point of no return, so you orgasm and ejaculate.

By focusing purely on your sensations, you can start to learn when that point of no return is approaching. Then you can stop thrusting, allow the feeling to die right down, and start to thrust again gently. You can repeat this several times until you finally decide to ‘let go’. The first few times you try it you might not be entirely successful, but that’s the point of training! Repeat the training a few times each week, and you’ll soon find that you’re lasting for longer.

You can also try a ‘mouth fleshlight’ to practise your blowjob stamina too. Check out this Ice Mouth Crystal Fleshlight for only $94.99, here.

You’ll also find that you quickly learn which style of thrusting is causing sensation overload and which you can keep doing for longer. That varies from person to person, so some people find, for example, that shallower thrusting helps them keep going, while other people find that slower, deeper thrusts are less likely to tip them over the edge. Experiment and find out what works for you.

Another bonus is that you may well find your orgasms become stronger. With more build up before they happen, both your brain and your body are more deeply immersed in the process and the tension, so explosive climaxes could well be the outcome. Result!

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